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Wednesday, April 27, 2016

California Bondage Sorority Book One now in paperback



California Bondage Sorority Book One is now available in paperback through CreateSpace, the self-publishing arm of Amazon.com. I apologize for the high price, but CreateSpace isn't well-suited for long books (about 390,000 words, nearly four times the length of the average novel) like this one, and I wasn't allowed to sell it for less than $25.21.

Remember that the ebook is still just $9.99 at Amazon.com, and Kindle Unlimited subscribers can read it for free. (I actually make more money from ebook sales than I will from the paperback.) Thank you to everyone who has bought the book and enjoyed it so far, and I hope that more of you give it a read soon.

Sunday, April 24, 2016

John Willie and Creating Fetish Cultures

I've never had as many orgasms in a day as I did the day that I received my copy of Taschen's reprint of every issue of John Willie's landmark fetish magazine, Bizarre. I'd seen some of Willie's artwork on USENET on bondage photo groups (yes, it was that long ago), so I knew that he'd done a lot of work that touched on my primary fetishes, bondage and gags. Although much of Bizarre (especially the later volumes) focused more on other fetishes, the combination of Willie's artwork, photography and writing about bondage and gags turned me on much more strongly than I could have expected, and I spent most of a day pleasuring myself as I kept reading and reading.

Willie worked at a time when he had to couch the fetishes he was displaying in Bizarre so they didn't appear, at least on their surface, as sexual; this is why he famously paired most of his photographs of bound and gagged women with a printed exhortation to women that went, "Don't let this happen to you! Learn jiu-jitsu, the art of self-defense." More subtle was how he often couched bondage in the concept of fashion, inventing things such as a dress that could be lifted over a woman's head and tied off at the top to immobilize the woman's arms. His essay (and accompanying photo and watercolors) about how gags will inevitably become a fashion staple is easily my favorite moment in Bizarre's history, and it still excites me every time I read it.

As I think back about what made Willie's work so powerful and unique, apart from the time frame in which he worked, I've come to realize that more than just portraying various fetishes, Willie was able to create entire mini-cultures through his writing and other art. Nearly anyone can depict a fetish with just a few models and the right tools, or the requisite skills to paint a painting or write a story. Maybe it was due to the constraints he worked under in the fifties and early sixties, but Willie had a real talent for making you believe that people really would wear his upside-down dresses, or gag themselves to be fashionable. He made it all seem not just realistic and possible, but sometimes even inevitable.

Those of us who work in kink often have to put a lot of effort into making sure that our clients feel okay in expressing their sexuality and their kinks; no matter how many kink-themed music videos get made, or how many stores stock fuzzy handcuffs because of the latest trends, there are still a lot of negative messages about kink in the broader culture, to say nothing about sexuality at large. Many of us have to work (sometimes very hard) just to make various kinks seem acceptable, but Willie was one of those rare artists who could make kink seem normal. When I look at the other kink artists whose work has really moved me -- especially the team behind Harmony Concepts, and then later the wave of amateur sites inspired by Suicide Girls that came out once digital photography became affordable, like The Underground -- they all had that ability to create their own culture, a world where bondage and whatever other kinks they portrayed seemed like a daily fact of life. I hope that I can achieve that kind of brilliance in my own writing one of these days.

Friday, April 22, 2016

Degrading Sex Work Enables Piracy

If I make a short, non-erotic film for about $10,000, and distribute it through pay channels like YouTube Red or Netflix (or even get a major distribution deal like the Blair Witch Project filmmakers), then it's obvious to most people why I would have a serious problem with other people uploading the film and making it available for streaming or download in a way that I don't get any money from. This isn't a hard concept to grasp: I spent my own money and put a lot of effort into something, and so I deserve financial compensation from people who want to enjoy the fruits of my labor. Yes, perhaps the world would be a better place if we abolished money and everyone was able to get whatever they wanted whenever they wanted it, but we're pretty far from that kind of world right now and we're not going to get there any time soon.

The same understanding doesn't hold true for erotic media, though. Judging by the popularity of some free streaming video sites for adult videos, and all the videos up for sale there that are clearly taken from paysites, piracy seems to be the norm for videos that are meant to sexually titillate their viewers. Although this problem is most prevalent with erotic videos and photos, it happens with other kinds of erotica as well; I find pirated ebooks of California Bondage Sorority Book One online every week, even though it's really not all that popular (yet). This isn't a matter of just robbing creators of pocket change, either; last month Dave Simpson, longtime producer of bondage photos and videos, committed suicide because piracy virtually destroyed his business. (Contrary to the widely-held perception of many consumers of erotica, for many creators it is their primary form of income. Piracy destroys lives.)

When erotica producers find their work posted online without their permission, though, they don't always have the same mechanisms in place to get their work taken down. Part of this is because a lot of sharing sites just don't have the same standards as sites like YouTube when it comes to taking down stolen material promptly (and some of those sites operate out of countries with lax enforcement of copyright laws). A lot of it has to do with the fact that sex work is degraded in our culture, though, because people who make erotic photos or videos or books are seen by many people as somehow less deserving of help (or even basic respect) than others. Just like women who dress sexily are told "what did you expect" after they go out to a club and get raped or sexually assaulted, erotic photographers and videographers and models and writers are blamed for the piracy of their work because "they knew they were in a seedy business." It's not right to blame women for getting raped, and it's not right to blame adult producers and models and writers for their work being pirated.

A lot needs to be done when it comes to getting pirated videos off of adult streaming video sites and file-sharing services, but in addition to the technical work of reporting videos and making it easier for these sites to detect when paid content is being uploaded to their servers, we also need to keep working to change mainstream culture when it comes to its perception of sex work and sex workers. If erotic video and photo producers had the same piracy-reporting tools at their disposal that others producers had then it would be much easier for everyone involved in erotic media to make a living doing what they love, and hopefully there won't be so many suicides in the future.

Saturday, April 2, 2016

Fantasy vs. Reality in Erotic Literature

As long as erotic literature is still broadly classified under the heading of romance, one of the things that this may result in is that readers will expect erotica to hew to the same aspects of fantasy seen in most romance novels. Although there are certainly exceptions out there in the market, romance novels tend to take place in ideal environments, with any dangers or difficulties that pop up being quickly resolved, and nearly always to the protagonist's benefit. One of the reasons that romance novels have been so popular decade after decade is that they provide the same kind of escapism for readers that "popcorn movies" provide for filmgoers, albeit with fewer explosions and more purple prose.

From the very start of conceptualizing it, though, I didn't want California Bondage Sorority Book One to depict an idyll. The fantasy of.a sorority where the sisters practice all kinds of kink on each other is compelling to a lot of readers, and it's my hope that the book can be read in that way if that's how readers want to experience it, but Epsilon Pi Sigma is far from perfect. I very deliberately raise issues of consent and safety in the novel to reflect problems that I saw back when I was a part of BDSM groups and went to play parties. (Those problems are the main reason why I don't participate in those things any longer, and keep my kink to my inner circle.)

Some of the people who've read the novel have had issues with those aspects of the sorority, though. On the one hand, I can't blame them for having those problems because I wanted them to be problematic, to raise questions and concerns about how the sorority (and even kink in general) operates. At the same time, though, if readers don't want to engage in those issues then it feels like there's no possibility for erotic texts to deal with larger issues that many may (rightly) find non-erotic.

I want the California Bondage Sorority books to be capable of being read in a variety of ways, from erotic romance all the way to literary fiction. Historically, though, erotic literature has always been pigeonholed into the category of romance, and all the stereotypes that come with that categorization. If it's just not possible for my books to break out of that mold, regardless of what I do or say as the author, then I'm probably going to have a very hard time creating dialogues about the issues I'd like to discuss, let alone an audience for my novels.